33 Lessons

Dear One,

My life's journey completes 12053 days today. It's unbelievable to know that you get older by each second, yet only once a year, you take time to celebrate your existence.

Over the years I have learnt many of life's incredible lessons. Some were taught to me by example, and some, I learnt by personal experience. But all of them were worth every penny I spent and now, I am sharing 33 of these with you - one for each year of my eventful life. (You must have figured out by now, that I am indeed 33)

1. Don't accept everything that you hear, see or believe to be true.
2. There are NO ghosts in the dark. It's only in your (and your mom's) mind.
3. You can't fly, even after watching 'Superman - The Movie' a thousand times.
4. Education is vital - Don't forget the lessons, when it is needed the most.
5. Girl friends come and go; don't settle down for the first one you lay your eyes on.
6. Nothing comes free. It's always give and take.
7. There are no best friends - Only A Best Friend.
8. Money makes the world go round; but it's love that makes it stand perfectly still.
9. Listen to your parents. But at times it's best to follow your own heart.
10. Make a career in what you love doing the most. As for the rest, it's called a profession.
11. Don't let circumstances dictate the terms of your happiness.
12. Certificates and trophies can only get you the job. It is your talent that will make you shine.
13. Nothing is out of reach, if you only try.
14. Don't let people (relatives, friends, teachers, parents et al.) decide your response to life.
15. Not all things happen as planned. Be prepared for a detour.
16. When you get a second chance at life; don't complain. Just welcome it with open arms.
17. Never think of ex-girlfriends. They must be married by now and care a shit about you.
18. Read a lot. It makes you think, imagine, believe and transform.
19. Talk to people. Know them and you will end up knowing yourself better.
20. Don't run after titles. It is a temporary back up for those insecure souls.
21. Earn the respect of your fellow beings. It will be your greatest treasure.
22. Excel in one thing, but try out many things without inhibitions.
23. Never break someone's dream by pointing out the reality. It ain't worth it.
24. Treat people with dignity and they will do the same to you.
25. Before owning a dog, check out it's "Bark-O-Level". (It's a huge neighbor's nuisance)
26. A boss can never take the place of a best friend. Know that and have a great time @ work.
27. Don't trust people blindly and end up blaming them for not living up to it.
28. Once in a while, pack your bags and get out all alone to explore the world you live in.
29. Loving someone deeply, doesn't guarantee an equal pay back.
30. Forgive & Forget. Do not keep any grudges against anyone. You end up hurting yourself more.
31. Don't complicate life by trying to understand it. Just be strong enough to live it.
32. Marry someone who has a great smile and whacky humor. You will smile through life for sure.
33. Be happy. Everything else is secondary.

Please do keep me in your prayers. Thank you!

Peace in oneself. Peace in the world.